LOVE

These days I have been questioning myself a lot about love. Is a really small, 4 letters word. So powerful that, when used correctly and meaning it completely, it comes along with feelings, decisions, and can change someones life forever.

We all wish that at the end of the day, we look to the other side of the bed and see the one who truly loves us for who we are, with virtues and flaws. To be 100% sure that person will never go and leave us, won't run after someone better or better looking than us, that make us feel safe and sure that you have found a partner, a friend, a lover, a confident, for life not just for a few months or years. 

I wish it was easy to assure to someone that your love will be forever and that trough all the changes and highs and downs of life your feelings for the other person won't change, instead they will grow stronger. But like someone I personally admire for they way he thinks said:  "If you are lucky you find the right person for you just once in your life, and some people never find it". 

They say the most difficult thing is not to fall in love but to stay in love and in my opinion, I think if you fall in love with the heart, soul and essence of the person you will never fall out of love because those things can't be seen or changed, but if you fall for the looks then that will fade also with the love that was attached to it.

Hold On

I truly believe that every person has a story, a good one, it all depends on how positive or negative you are, like the saying "You can see the glass half empty or half full". Is all about perspectives, but sometimes the things that happen to us, such as tragedy, do not differentiate people from rich, poor, with education, values, ethics or being the worst kind of human being. Something in our lives happens that changes us, can be at any age, at any time and suddenly nothing is the same and you even question who you are. Those moments where we seem to be forced to loose hope, when you have nothing else, you are out of ideas, at the very end of the bottom of the sea, when you have felt life hitting you at your lowest point and you feel like you are about to give up and take that last breath, that's when you can see life more clear than you ever imagined, that last breath is when you can see what you love the most, so hold on to it, that's the reason to keep going, could be a person, or something you love or a dream you have not fulfilled yet, so don't give up, because whatever that is keeping you from running out of air just yet, could be the only thing that saves you and help you to find the strength to continue, like I always say: Don't leave the cinema in the middle of the movie when all the problems arise, wait until the end, you never know what kind of ending it will have.